Straight Shooter

I have to be honest I am actually writing this post in a mixture of emotions both anger and humor. I have come to realize I am a straight shooter . What I mean by this is I am not the type of girl that hints at things, nor do I want to be hinted at. I like forwardness, even if some think it comes off as rude, I would rather know the truth and stop whatever it is I am doing and continue with progress. I think this is why my closest friends in the work place have been from foreign countries, they dont bullshit because they dont know how. In their country they dont teach how to how to be a nicebitch(thats the term I refer to when people are nice but you know they were trying to be rude), they tell you the truth straight up and I love them for it! My closest friends have been seen as "bitches" by others and people wonder why I am friends with them, well its because they are not afraid to say exactly what is on their mind regardless if you like them or not. I am at a very comfortable spot in my life and.... I like me. I know that may sound weird, but I do not have to have everybody like me anymore, and I think at one point I felt that I had to try to get everyone's approval and you know what when you are truly comfortable with yourself skin, mind,& soul, you dont need that anymore. Ok with that said I have never been a girlfriend or wife that beats around the bush. If you ask I say yes and its a yes, I say no and I mean no, I say clean and ...well.. you get my drift I say exactly how I feel and at the moments I feel them, this way I hold onto nothing and resent nothing , my husband on the other hand is the opposite. I like to say I am the man and he is the girl, for instance he likes to hint at things, such as "don't you think this needs to be.....(fill in the blank)and I am like say what you need to say and stop bull shitting me. Ok now to our latest silent argument. I bathe the girls in our tub and apparently he HATES it because I wake up in the morning to find all their toys spread across my bathroom floor. Does he tell me? no he just throws their toys out of the tub, so I continue to leave their toys in the tub, so today I get home from school to find the toys in my sink, normally I would have just thrown them back in the tub but today I was in no mood, so I put them back in his sink and went to my candlelight party. I get home at about 9pm to find them back in my sink. This SOB did not do this again Im thinking... so I put them back in his sink, go into the girls toy closet get more toys to add and than fill his sink up with soap and water with the toys in it! I hear him coming up the stairs and he walks into the bathroom and yells " what the &^#%@^" and i yell "Dont mess with me bitch!" hhahahahhahahahaha! Two can play this stupid game and I will win because you are not smart enough!! Anyway, he said seriously babe can you please put the toys away after their bath, and I said absolutely and he looked at me funny and I said "that is ALL you ever had to ask!" ok I feel better now that I blogged that!!!!!!!!!!!!